I AM THANKFUL #19

I am thankful for advice that I have received over the years. Many times, we try hard to ignore the advice that comes in. But then there are times when the advice is helpful and wonderful and changes your perspective on life.

Here are a few pieces of advice that have changed my life.

The first, our Bishop, suggested this book by Wendy Watson Nelson, who married Russell M. Nelson (quorum of the twelve).


She uses the scriptures as the 'how to' book on relationships. Here is a review:

Relationships are so challenging in this life--no matter who you are. This book has both the spiritual doctrine as well as views from a seasoned therapist who has worked with countless families and couples over her career. My husband and I read it together; we buy all books by her for her incredible insight, inspiration, and knowledge about the gospel and relationships.

I would definitely recommend this one to any one as well. If you don't have it, it is a keeper to add to your collection. I think that it would also be a great gift for marriage.

One of my favorite quotes that feels like advice is:

Dance like no one is watching


Love like you've never been hurt


Sing like no one is listening


Live like Heaven is on earth.


Great advice huh?

Our wedding advice from our Stake President was wonderful. (Yes, I have a copy of it!)

Things that Brandon can do for Zoey:

• Even when you have been married for a long time, complement her cooking.
• Learn some new jokes for the sake of Zoey because she has heard the old ones.
• Send presents to her for no reason at all.
• Ask your wife's advice on problems and sometimes take it.
• Bring her flowers while she can smell them.

Things that Zoey can do for Brandon:

• Don't make him the family "Meany." Don't say to the children, "just wait until your father gets home."
• Don't tell him your problems until you have fed him.
• Remember the thing you said and did to land him and try them again.
• Don't shush your husband if he sings at a party or acts like a clown.
• Try to be home when he gets there.
• Don't borrow his razor.

Things you both can do:

• Treat each other occasionally as though you were meeting for the first time.
• Never sleep on a problem without a solution or some agreement.
• Stop keeping up with the Jones's.
• Avoid getting mad at the same time.
• Respect each other's privacy.
• Switch off the TV and talk.
• Build each other up in public. Don't try to compete. Cultivate good humor.
• Never yell unless there is a fire.

I would love to hear what advice has affected you in your life!